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ways of hapiness

2007-04-04T04:52:00.000-07:00

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14 Ways to Happiness

Clinical psychologists believe that happiness is a product of realization. One must allow himself to go through a process to feel happiness. They explain the following phases :

ACCEPT THE PAINS. You must get in touch with your situation. Sometimes people deny their hardship, thinking that if they don't face them, they will be happier. But it's the other way around. Allow yourself to go through the pains.

CHOOSE NOT TO STAY IN PAIN. They say this is "self-empowerment". You can either be bitter about the pains and feel very powerless. Or you can do something and feel powerful enough to handle them. It's a choice to live with or without pain.

FORGIVE YOURSELF, OTHER PEOPLE. But before forgiveness comes in, think about how other people hurt. Then realize that you can see yourself for what you actually are and not how they want you to be. So finding happiness is no longer rooted outside, but it's inside you - what you see, how you view things, what you want. Then it leads to your choice : to live your life with yourself.

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR LIFE. We sometimes allow ourselves to let other people, circumstances, or pains in the past to rule our lives. So we become very unhappy and very bitter because we live blaming others on who we are, where we're at, or how we should be. It's an exhausting process because you'll forever be blaming other people. Don't be bothered by what others think who you are or the standards they set. Take responsibility for your life.

LEARN TO LET GO AND TRUST YOURSELF. To be happy means learning to let go of expectations from yourself or from other people. You can't always have your way. At work, you can't always be sure your strategies will work or your plans will happen. But before you let go,have a deeper trust in yourself.

LEARN TO RECEIVE BLESSINGS. Think of the little things that make you happy or the people that give you assurance where you're good at. This is called receiving. Most of us have reasons to be happy,only that we don't see them or we take them for granted. We need to have little eyes and little hearts too, and realize that all things that make us happy have been there all along.

HAVE SOMEBODY TO TURN TO. Even if you're in turmoil, there are people who will support you. But often we stick with people who make us very unhappy. If you're unhappy, seek people who will nurture you or look for a partner who will serve as a well-spring of inspiration.

BE HOPEFUL. Hoping is better than being optimistic since it's whole and real. Because sometimes, one's optimism can be a denial of hardship . It's easy to be optimistic about things, but inside you,you're anxious about them. Hoping is deeper. It's something you look forward to even when you recognize the difficulties and pains. The more hopeful a person is, the more he recognizes how bad the situation is, and lets himself to bear it. In the end, he knows it will bear good results. You don't deny difficulties. You're touching ground instead.

KEEP THE FAITH ALIVE. There'll be points in your life when you can't handle problems alone. Think about SOMEONE who's more powerful,and who loves you dearly to take care of you. Having faith in ALLAH will give you hope.

SHARE YOURSELF. You can actually give intangible gifts even without your conscious effort. People will tell you later that you've helped them, and gradually, you will feel you're making a difference in their lives. That's a deeper gift. When you help others, they affirm you by saying, "You're good." Then you realize that you're a good person and your goodness is not merely based on meeting deadlines or getting a raise. It's more of proving your self-worth based on being loved for who you really are and not simply for the result you can deliver or the money you can contribute to the company. This strengthens your positive attitude towards difficulties in life.

BE GRATEFUL. You have to develop in yourself the sense of gratitude. You should be thankful for what you have. But youshould recognize that there are things you can do to improve your life.

IT'S ALL IN THE MIND. We are unhappy because we think we are. Unhappy people are attached to their unhappiness. They refuse to change. When one thinks negatively, then he attracts negative thoughts. If you think that a tragedy will fall on you, somehow you fulfill it. Unconsciously, you make it happen.

MONEY ISN'T EVERYTHING. People accumulate more and more money but the amount of happiness they can "buy" gets smaller and smaller. Although more money may bring greater feeling of empowerment, studies show that personal relationships, spirituality and feelings about oneself most directly influence well-being.

DISCOVER THE BEST FRIEND IN YOU. We can all change for the better. You can be happy even with yourself by discovering the best friend in you. Get real. Don't be hard on yourself with those high, unattainable goals. It's time you don't look for happiness outside you.

Iraq war

2007-01-18T10:26:00.000-08:00

Hi friends,

Most of the time I have posted light blogs . But at the begining of this year, one incident stikes me the most. It was Saddam's death.
Few days back, I prepared a report on America's anti-terrorist mission.
I want to share a part of my report with all of u.
It is related with the "fall of Baghdad" and World Public opinion about Americas new stategies.

Introduction: Beginning of “Iraq war” and “fall of Baghdad”

"Operation Iraqi Freedom" by the United States, officially began on March 20, 2003. In preparation, 100,000 US troops were assembled in Kuwait by February 18.[8] The United States supplied the majority of the invading forces. Supporters of the invasion included a coalition force of more than 40 countries, and Kurds in northern Iraq. The 2003 Iraq invasion began the Iraq War.

The Iraqi military was defeated, and Baghdad fell on April 9, 2003. On May 1, 2003, U.S. President Bush declared the end of major combat operations, terminating the Baath Party's rule and removing Iraqi President Saddam Hussein from office. Coalition forces ultimately captured Saddam Hussein on December 13, 2003.

World Public Opinion

“War on terror” rose by Bush regime has a significant impact on the US military and economic progress over the last three years. Moreover, this war has nearly destroyed Iraq and its people.

Acocording to an estimate, Bush’s illegal invasion of Iraq has cost 655,000 Iraqis their lives Bush’s invasion has also spawned sectarian conflict or civil war in Iraq, although the Bush regime denies it. This “war on terror” cost about 40000 US army officials death.

Many people around the globe suspects on Bush intentions of inventing “Iraq” and “Baghdad”. Millions of people including UN officials strongly condemned USA recent military operations. There is growing concern over mounting evidence that the "War on Terror" military campaign against Iraq and Afghanistan is motivated by a hidden agenda of oil, profit and financial factors, rather than national security.

Public opinions on “Americas Motive”------

Large percentages of people in predominantly Muslim countries also believe the anti-terrorism effort is driven by the desire of the U.S. to protect Israel.

War Hurt Terrorism Fight

In every country except the United States more people say the war in Iraq has hurt the fight against terrorism than say it has helped. Fully two-thirds of Moroccans (67%) say military action in Iraq has done more harm than good in this regard, as do solid majorities in Germany (58%), Pakistan (57%), Turkey (56%) and France (55%).

Even in Great Britain, 50% say the war in Iraq hurt the broader struggle against terrorism while just 36% say it helped the war on terrorism. As on other questions related to Iraq, Americans take a very different view. By more than two-to-one (62%-28%), Americans say the war in Iraq helped, not hurt the war on terror.

Republicans overwhelmingly believe the war in Iraq helped the war on terrorism (82%) as do most independents (62%). Democrats are divided on this issue: 46% say the war helped in the overall fight against terrorism while 42% disagree.

Opinions of Iraqis regarding the “Exit of US Forces” from Iraq—

A publication of the Program on International Policy Attitudes- sources.

* A large majority of Iraqis—71%—say they would like the Iraqi government to ask for U.S.-led forces to be withdrawn from Iraq within a year or less.

* US Presence Seen as Having a Net Negative Effect.

Large numbers say that the United States' military presence is “provoking more conflict than it is preventing.” This view is held by 78 percent overall, and by 82 percent of Shias and a near-unanimous 97 percent of Sunnis. The Kurds diverge, with 56 percent taking the opposing view that the United States' military presence is “a stabilizing force.”

· Belief that the United States Plans Permanent Bases in Iraq.

A large majority of Iraqis—and a majority in all ethnic groups—believes that the United States plans to maintain permanent military bases in Iraq and would not withdraw its forces if asked to by the Iraqi government.

Asked whether they think “the U.S. government plans to have permanent military bases in Iraq or to remove all its military forces once Iraq is stabilized,” 77 percent of respondents say that the United States plans to have permanent military bases. This view is held by a majority of Kurds (58%), as well as Shias (73%) and virtually all Sunnis (97%).

Perhaps more significant, approximately the same number—78%—believe that “If the new Iraqi government were to tell the United States to withdraw all of its forces within six months,” the United States would refuse to do so. Again, this view is held by a majority of all groups—64 percent of Kurds, 76 percent of Shias and 96 percent of Sunnis.

The Reasons Given

During 2002 and early 2003, a number of reasons for wanting this "regime change" were advanced. This essay attempts to show that the reasons given are spurious and that the real reason is oil and the economic, military and political benefits of controlling this region.

If it is established that it is a valid policy to attack a country because you think they may be a threat, what is to stop countries attacking the West because they feel threatened? This will lead to international anarchy.
Iraq had Weapons of Mass Destruction and was a Threat

This was a smokescreen to deceive public opinion and provide a reason for regime change....
Iraq had Violated UN Resolutions for 12 Years (1991 to 2003)

The USA has often used the United Nations to legitimise its actions around the world, ignoring its wishes when the international community disagreed with USA policy....
Iraq was not a Democracy

"Democracy" is one of those words used to rally support....
Iraq was Oppressing its own People (Especially the Kurds)

"Oppression" is another key word used to rally support. The Kurds are one of the most betrayed people in the world. After the end of World War 1, the UK and France split up the Turkish ruled Ottoman Empire among themselves. The Kurdish people ended up being split between four countries: Turkey, Iran, Syria and Iraq....
Iraq Used Torture

No doubt about it - but Iraq is not alone in this....
Iraq had Invaded its Neighbours

This is also true, but there are some qualifications to be made....
Iraq had Links to Al-Qaida and Supported Terrorism

This one can best be described as "scraping the barel". Remember, the USA was considering removing the current Iraqi regime long before Al-Qaida became an obsession. The USA has long supported terrorism. Saddam Husein and Al-Qaida have both been armed and financed by the USA....
Iraq Told Lies and Misled the World Community

This is no doubt correct but the following are just a small selection of the falsehoods and lies perpetrated by the USA. Other countries (including the UK, France and Israel) have also misled the world community....
The Real Reasons?
Oil and Economic Control

The USA relies on oil to supply about 40% of its energy requirements, more than any other source. Of this, 55% is imported oil. This percentage is expected to rise to 65% in 2020 and to keep increasing. Much of the USA's oil comes from the Gulf region. This region also supplies oil to most of the world.

According to Michael T. Klare writing for the Interhemispheric Resource Center: "This dependency is [a weakness] for American power: unless Persian Gulf oil can be kept under American control, our ability to remain the dominant world power would be put into question." Additionally, "Whoever controls the Gulf automatically maintains a stranglehold on the global economy."

Iraq has the second largest oil reserves in the Middle East. It has been estimated that the Iraqi oil reserves amount to $ 1,100,000 million's worth and can last for 130 years.

The table below from British Petroleum (BP) shows the estimated time that various countries' oil fields are expected to last (as of 2002).

Country

Years

Country

Years

Iraq

128.98

Romania

16.01

Kuwait

127.70

Trinidad and Tobago

15.34

United Arab Emirates

114.81

Other Asia Pacific

15.13

Saudi Arabia

85.13

Oman

14.77

Iran

67.25

Republic of Congo
(Brazaville)

14.34

Azerbaijan

67.02

Ecuador

14.18

Venezuela

63.58

Thailand

14.17

Qatar

55.57

Uzbekistan

13.77

Other South and
Central America

41.21

Australia

12.56

Nigeria

30.41

Turkmenistan

12.47

Kazakhstan

27.71

Denmark

11.81

Cameroon

24.69

Malaysia

11.40

Italy

24.42

Syria

10.99

Yemen

23.08

Egypt

10.72

Mexico

21.52

USA

10.52

Brunei

21.05

Indonesia

10.21

Gabon

19.97

Argentina

9.85

Angola

19.44

Norway

8.02

Russian Federation

19.25

Colombia

6.44

Algeria

18.25

Canada

6.20

Brazil

18.09

United Kingdom

5.94

Other Former
Soviet Union

16.05

Vietnam

5.85

* Criticisms and opposition of the war

The war was unpopular from the outset in many Coalition countries, as reflected in opinion polls and widespread protests, including the largest worldwide protest in human history, on February 15th, 2003: a day of Global protests against war on Iraq. The Iraq War was widely viewed by many critics as counterproductive. Many viewed the war as improper (being a moral and ethical violation); and, at the extreme, illegal under international law. By the summer of 2005, there was an increase in the number of individuals in the United States that felt the same way. A decorated British Royal Air Force Officer has been court-martialled for refusing to take further part in the war. He was decorated more than once in the Iraq War, and considers that the war is illegal. He has been charged with "refusing to obey a lawful command".

Crtics have cited that, economically, the various engagements in Iraq has cost the United States about USD $200,000,000,000, and still costs about USD $4,000,000,000 a month.

* Primary Objections

· No evidence of weapons of mass destruction were found.
· No evidence linking Iraq to Al Qaeda, or the September 11, 2001 attacks.
· Post-war planning was inadequate. In the absence of a clear plan of action for creating a democratic and sovereign Iraq, the insurgency grew.
· The war has tarnished the reputation of the United States, in Muslim countries, France, and countries that were with Iraq before the invasion.
· The war has endangered United States national security by bringing Al Qaeda elements into Iraq and establishing a network of terrorists where none existed before the American invasion.
· Civilian infrastructure has been destroyed including water, sewage and electricity as a result of the invasion; much of which has never been repaired.
· There have been heavy civilian casualties including the killing of motorists at checkpoints.
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These are few of the information which I have collected.
I would luv to know ur view point on US Iraq War.

rimjhim- a page which express my viws and opinions

2006-12-28T07:59:00.000-08:00

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Cinderella
Cinderella, why do you wish to be like anyone else?
Your fine by yourself.
People notice you because your different

Cinderella, why do you wish to be pretty?
What you have is called inner beauty
I’m not giving you my pity

Cinderella, Why don’t you stand up to those snobs?
They are garbage compared to you
The people who rob
End up blue

Cinderella, Why don’t you take what’s yours?
And not just dust either
Stop doing those chores

Cinderella, Why don’t you go out?
Not as a maid but who you really are
Go a different route
You will shine like a star

Cinderella, why don’t you let the beauty out?
The prince will like you for you
Go out and about
Forget the glass shoe

Cinderella, why don’t you forget its midnight?
Show the prince who you really are
You wont win without a fight
I’m telling you shine like star

Be yourself not someone else

Priscilla Patterson

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2006-09-28T00:09:00.000-07:00

rimjhim- a page which express my viws and opinions: September 2006

my c v

2006-09-26T02:09:00.000-07:00

PERSONAL INFORMATION
NAME : RIMJHIM JAISWAL
DATE OF BIRTH 18-04-1986
AGE 20 yrs.
SEX Female
FATHER’S NAME Mr. Arun Kr. Jaiswal
NATIONALITY Indian
RELIGION Hindu
HOBBIES Music, Reading Books, Painting
ACTIVITIES Basket ball, Chess, Recitation, Drama
EDUCATIONAL INFORMATION
YEAR
EXAMINATION PASSED
PERCENTAGE OF MARKS OBTAINED
NAME OF SCHOOL/COLLEGE
2002
W.B.B.S.E
73%
Balika Siksha Sadan
2004
W.B.C.H.S.E
64%
Balika Siksha Sadan
2005
B.B.A (HONS.) PART-1(C.U)
59%
SCOTTISH CHURCH COLLEGIATE
2006
B.B.A (HONS.) PART-2 (C.U)
APPEARED
SCOTTISH CHURCH COLLEGIATE
WORK EXPERIENCES:
Call centre executive- 1 month.
Company: Lee&Nee
Search Engine Optimizer (SEO) - 4 months
Intrasoft Technologies- http://www.123greetings.com/
Massoftind-http://www.massoftind.com
ACHIEVEMENTS
v Obtained certificate in Basics of Computer [Y.M.C.A]
vObtained certificate in Drawing [Bichtra Arts]
v Second Prize in Recitation competition [school level -2003]
vThird Prize in Recitation competition [school level -2004]
vSecond Prize in Presentation competition[college level-2006]
EXTRA CURRICULAR ACTIVITIES
Participation in stage drama [school level]
Member of renowned yoga club [Bishto Ghosh]
Former member of Basket ball team [school level]